Patience and Effort Definitely Pay Off In JBP World

I tried working for Odesk as a web researcher, typing Captchas, creating and answering questions in Socipoll, completing surveys and clicking advertisements to earn online but all of them have a common denominator. They're too time-consuming. Aside from the long hours that you need to spend in front of your computer just to type, click and view, you're kind of pressured to refer especially if you want to earn quickly. And to be totally honest, the main reason why I joined JustBeenPaid is the fact that I can still earn even without referrals. In my mind, "why would I need 10% commission if I can earn through my own triplers?"

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My first few weeks as a newbie psyched me. I am earning everyday and my earnings grow on a daily basis. I was observing the posts in Facebook and was shocked to see that a member can earn like more than a hundred dollars through commissions alone. Also, I thought of my own sponsor; he's earning $1 for every position that I purchase. I suddenly remembered the first time I added funds and bought my first set of triplers; He earned and he's continuously earning through me. That's the time that I realized that I can be an upline too; that I can earn through commissions too; that I can also earn through other people.

I started sharing JustBeenPaid to others through this blog, forum and FB chat exactly 2 months ago. As expected, it was hard to convince everyone to join the program because they have to shed some cash before earning. Questions that didn't seem to end started pouring in and since I'm introducing the program, I had to practice my old profession when I started my career in BPO industry. I was a Customer Service Representative once again and being an upline made me realize a few things:

• Just like in SALES, you need to know what you are selling to be credible enough. You need to know the ins and outs of the product before convincing others to try it out. Most importantly, you must believe in the product you are selling. In JBP, an upline must be ready to answer all the possible questions that a prospect could have. How would you convince others to sign up if you yourself do not know what the program is all about?

• DISCUSS THE BENEFITS INSTEAD OF FEATURES. One of the features of JBP is the $10 loan (pay-it-forward). Now what? As an upline, you need to make the prospect understand as to what the feature does. Ex. In JBP, Pay-it-forward allows the member to observe and know the program for 45 days without spending a single cent. $10 is the feature, risk-free trial is the benefit. 

• Know how to IDENTIFY BUYING SIGNALS.  If your potential buyer is obviously not interested, move on to the next customer. You would know if the person you are talking to is interested by his/her way of questioning. Ex. If your prospect is asking about payment processors, it is more likely that he/she is interested.

• Like in CUSTOMER SERVICE and TECHNICAL SUPPORT, you need to have patience and willingness to assist or walk the member through the system/site. And if there are questions/situation that you cannot handle, you have the liberty to use your resources and research or escalate (go to the web conference or ask the JBP gurus in FB group)

• You need to have GOOD REASONING SKILLS. Effectively handling objections  like "I dont see the need to upgrade" or "I'm just gonna use the PIF feature and wait for it to each $10 so I can compound". is one of the top drivers why some JBP members have a huge number of referrals. Ex. Make your prospect understand how buying triplers using his/her money would benefit him/her. Explain that a cycled matrix will earn him/her $60 that's why he/she needs to upgrade. This bullet point, I believe is self explanatory. 

"Much effort, much prosperity"

Very true! I earned almost $150 in just 2 days through referral commissions alone.  Many thanks to my referrals. 

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Even I wasn't that convinced that I'd be able to make a living through JustBeenPaid. I literally spent almost three days researching for site reviews; hoping that I'd find a negative feedback that would change my mind but I was not able to find one. And my note to myself was: " Either this program is really working out for everyone or I was not researching enough." After a few more hours of reading others' testimonials, I registered and tried the program out using JBP's Pay-IT-Forward ($10 loan). 

After Reading the FAQ's, observing the posts in JBP groups in Facebook and with my sponsor's assistance, I gradually understood the ins and out of the program. I decided to take the risk, shed some of my spare money and start with $150, which gives me $3.20 daily. I decided to buy more triplers because if you are serious to pursue the program, purchasing/repurchasing triplers can be so addicting especially if you want to earn quickly. I am now earning $52 everyday and counting; the risk was definitely worth it. 

 To those who are still in doubt, here's a compilation of payment proofs from JBP members all over the world. Enjoy!

“Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore.” 

-Andre Gide

Join us and make money work for you. 

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Seriously, Get Over It!

Of course, It would have been great if she won, but she did not so let's deal with it. For the past hours, I've been seeing a lot of negative remarks in Twitter and Facebook regarding the result. Seriously? Why can't we just respect the result? It's called American Idol anyway so it should no longer be a surprise if America voted for Philip Phillips. 

A few points:

• PP was never in the bottom two, which made it quite obvious that he has a huge fanbase that has supported him since day 1. 
• They both have the talent; but they do have different music genres. They're both deserving to win. Do you think that the judges would save Jessica when she got the lowest number of votes if they didn't see her potential? In my honest opinion, if there was no voting involved in determining who is who, Jessica would definitely have the title. But the truth of the matter is, it's still the votes that matter and PP has a bigger number of votes compared to out bet.
• Jessica may have not won, but it is certain that she's got a big future ahead of her. It was indeed a good, memorable and close fight. Jessica, making it in the final 2 should make us all proud. No more bitterness please. She doesn't even need the title to make it big in Hollywood in the first place. 

I was also disappointed when I heard Ryan announce the winner. But what can I do? I couldn't change the result. I'm happy and proud of our very own for making it in the finals. She was even named "World Idol", right? After all, it's the runners up who have a better career than those who bagged the title and this is just the beginning of the real competition. Welcome Jessica to stardom! 

Confessions of An Ex-Mistress

Yes, you got the title right. I was once a mistress and believe me or not, I didn't regret being one. I was not an ordinary low-class mistress who asked for money, ruined a family, or engaged to sex. So, If you're wondering what kind of mistress I was, I guess I was one of the ones who just fell in love.

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Don't get me wrong, I am not proud to be a mistress. Not at all. It's true that I didn't regret it because I learned a lot from that experience. I have come to realize a lot of things. I learned who will be the ones who wouldn't judge and stick with me till the end of my battle.

Many says that those who can bear to be in a forbidden relationship are either desperate, insecure, gold digger OR, some are just plain home-wreckers. I admit I was guilty of one thing or two. I was kind of desperate that time; I was under the impression that no one's gonna love me again. I believe that's one common sentence you're gonna hear from a person who went through a traumatic break up. My self esteem was as low as you you could imagine.. I was so vulnerable.. I felt unwanted by many, I felt unimportant until he came..

He's a former office mate; he was not that approachable, kind of "suplado" and he initially caught my attention because he's really good looking. He was my team mate and I heard he's already married. And since I was new to the team, I had an excuse not to talk to him. I didn't even intend to have him included on my friends list. It's not that I'm trying to be "suplada"; it's just that I don't want to be friends with a person whom I am attracted with. Considering that he's married, the least thing I would want is to make a move. I just simply didn't want anything that has something to do with him.

After a few months, I was receiving anonymous emails from this person who wants to be friends with me. I didn't have an idea that it was actually him. Mixed emotions. I was flattered and worried at the same time.  But hey, he just wants to be friends, so what's the big deal? It's not like he's not friends with anybody. Your guess is as good as mine. We became good friends, which eventually led to a relationship.

We were so good in keeping our "little secret" to everyone. Even my bestfriend who I was with everyday didn't know that there's something going on between me and the guy. (I guess I have to start addressing him by his name to make it easier for me to write the story. Let's just call him "jumong" since they look alike. That's how good looking he is.) I can say that he loved me too. I felt it. We were both victims of "right love at the wrong time". Time flies when we're together and as much as we would like to spend a lot of time together, we can't. I saddens me that I cannot introduce him as my special someone because he's not really mine in the first place. He's married and ought to be a father so whenever I'm alone, guilt always strikes me.

Months passed and our relationship grew deeper and deeper. I felt so loved and special and I was at my happiest because finally, I found a guy who loves me unconditionally. He even said that he's willing to leave her wife, son and religion just to be with me. That was when I realized that what we have is wrong because a son is about to lose a father and a wife is about to lose a husband. Because of me.

I loved him so much and even if it kills me, I decided to stay away and do the right thing. We have to end what we have even if it hurts like hell. I know he's not mine and he will never be that's why I decided to be in the right path. I guess it was also God's will because his wife found out. She bombarded me with harassing text messages and called me a home wrecker and honestly, I can't blame her. She threatened to get me fired from work since my then-supervisor is her best friend. As expected, my job was affected and I almost lost my friends because they were defending me only to find out that what they learned to believe was just a lie. I knew then that I couldn't handle the situation alone. I decided to tell my parents. Letting them know was the hardest because they trusted me too much and  thought I was smart enough to never let myself in that kind of situation. I guess blood is really thicker than water because they stood by me all through the way. We even came to a point where we had everything settled (My parents, Jumong's parents and the legal wife's parents). I had to take all the insult and painful words because it was my fault in the first place. I should have avoided in right from the start but I didn't. So if that was the price that I have to pay, bring it on.

I decided to quit my job and move on. I moved in Manila even if I was clueless about what kind of life I'm gonna be having now that I'm away from my family. Fortunately, I found a job but I had no place to stay yet that's why I decided to go home everyday. There were mornings that I'm seeing him at the bus station, looking for me. How he found out? I have no idea. There were also nights that I'm seeing him in front of our subdivision, waiting for me. But of course, I chose not to talk to him, even if all I wanted to do was put my arms around him. Last thing I heard, he's still trying to get in touch with me (through a friend) but I opted not to give any of my contact information. I have moved on and he should also do the same. 8 years have passed and I have learned a lot from my experience. There are times that I still think of him and our memories still make me smile. He changed my life and he made me a strong person. I am now happy with my life, my baby and my partner. There are times that we're having problems since he's away but I'm glad because we still make our relationship work; for our love and for our daughter. 

My New Year's Resolution

It is another year for me; I can say that I'm a year older and wiser. However, this year is different. I don't know if this year has been the happiest or saddest birthday that I ever had. I think it would be more appropriate to say that it's a combination of both. Why new year's resolution though? My birthday made me realize that I have a lot of excess baggage that I should let go. And since this is a new year for me, today marks the day that I'm finally letting go of the these people who cause me pain especially during the supposedly SPECIAL days of my life. It's time for me to choose to be happy. Selfish? I don't really care.

IF YOU CAN"T TREAT ME RIGHT, GET OUT OF MY LIFE! 

Sure. All of us got issues that we need to deal with but we need to understand that there are some who are affected by each of our actions. Taking a person who cares about you deeply for granted is a big no-no! As I've written in my previous post, I got fed up being ignored and so, I decided to gradually kill my feelings for this person. I am going through a lot of tough times right now and the fact that I can't rely on him is way too much to bear. The least thing I would need now is a burden. I need someone who will change my life,  not just  my relationship status in Facebook.

He may have changed my life since I'm a mom now... I'd be forever thankful. I thought he was the one but he just wasn't and probably never will. Dreams for us? Yeah right... He can go ahead and keep those dreams to himself. Just like how he keeps things to himself too. I'm tired and I'm done with all this sh!t.. This could be the hardest decision in my life but my daughter and I will get by.

GOODBYE NEGATIVE VIBES!

Starting today, I am choosing to be happy. This means that I'll stay away from those who cause me pain and disappointment that I certainly do not deserve. I'll start to regain my self esteem and be a better and happy person. I'll focus more on my baby. Goodbye negativity!

Update: May 24, 2012

Surprisingly, I did a very good job in saying goodbye to negativity. How? I just mastered the art of DEADMA and it worked.  Everything started to fall in the right place. Communication is the key. Also, try not to think too much and loosen up a bit. It might work for you too. Focus on the positive side of things instead of dwelling with the down side. On my birthday, I chose to be happy, and I am now.